I got a 9 - 5 job and yes when I get acrylic nails again I will doing Dolly Parton's 9 - 5 with abandon! No one can stop me! *ahem* So, I got a regular degular job and it is what I wanted, stability. Before this job I did jobs with no stability at …
Category: Musings
Can Celebrities Truly be Normal?
This is a question I've had lately. When I was younger I used to think of celebrities as their profession. So if you were an actor I thought of you via your most famous role. So like Janine from EastEnders was always Janine and Legolas was always Legolas. But then I watched a behind the …
Unintended Hiatus
It's been a while since I've posted and posted regularly. This year has been all over the place for me. I got a job and it's a 9-5 type job but it seems to be taking all my energy to the point I can't do the things that I enjoy like blogging. In fact the …
I am worthy. We are worthy.
Sometimes it feels like I was born to work. When I became an adult I realised that adulthood was a scam and really all I would be doing until my death was working. Sure, I tried to go for a career that I would enjoy but fam, those careers are mad competitive and it began …
It’s what I am…
When I was younger I wasn’t black enough. I didn’t talk like I was black and I didn’t act like I was black but I was black. I am black. So, why did I not fit in? This was a very new concept for me as I’d moved to the UK from Rwanda so the …
Making Connections
As I have gotten older I have realised one of my biggest flaws. In an extrovert world I am an introvert, not only that but I’m shy too. If you want to get places in life you have t0 overcome one of these things or go for careers that suit these traits. I did not …
Being Demisexual
I never thought of myself as demisexual until I started dating. When I was with my first boyfriend I was like, “Hmm, something is not adding up.” I thought I was sexual. On the scale from asexual to sexual I thought I was right by sexual. I have a high libido and I enjoy physical …
Nuances in Cheek Kisses
I was thinking about physical affection and how it means different things to different people. There are people who see a kiss on the cheek as the height of romance. It’s sweet, it’s innocent, it’s beautiful. I’ve known people who feel the same way about a forehead kiss. There’s something about it that is intimate …
Kenny and his Sword
I love Bleach. When I first started my blog I took the opportunity to write about Bleach and it’s characters. Since then I haven’t really re watched or re read Bleach but when Kubo came out with Burn the Witch it got me thinking about Bleach again and I’ve started to rewatch the series but …
It’s All in Perspective
TW: Weight Gain and talking about weight I have talked on here about how I went up three dress sizes this pandemic. A brief update on that, I’ve been embracing it more and I got new clothes little by little (your girl is broke) so having clothes that fit and that I like has made …
Giftie Speaks 