I got a 9 - 5 job and yes when I get acrylic nails again I will doing Dolly Parton's 9 - 5 with abandon! No one can stop me! *ahem* So, I got a regular degular job and it is what I wanted, stability. Before this job I did jobs with no stability at …
Tag: Musings
Can Celebrities Truly be Normal?
This is a question I've had lately. When I was younger I used to think of celebrities as their profession. So if you were an actor I thought of you via your most famous role. So like Janine from EastEnders was always Janine and Legolas was always Legolas. But then I watched a behind the …
I am worthy. We are worthy.
Sometimes it feels like I was born to work. When I became an adult I realised that adulthood was a scam and really all I would be doing until my death was working. Sure, I tried to go for a career that I would enjoy but fam, those careers are mad competitive and it began …
It’s what I am…
When I was younger I wasn’t black enough. I didn’t talk like I was black and I didn’t act like I was black but I was black. I am black. So, why did I not fit in? This was a very new concept for me as I’d moved to the UK from Rwanda so the …
Making Connections
As I have gotten older I have realised one of my biggest flaws. In an extrovert world I am an introvert, not only that but I’m shy too. If you want to get places in life you have t0 overcome one of these things or go for careers that suit these traits. I did not …
It’s All in Perspective
TW: Weight Gain and talking about weight I have talked on here about how I went up three dress sizes this pandemic. A brief update on that, I’ve been embracing it more and I got new clothes little by little (your girl is broke) so having clothes that fit and that I like has made …
Buried Memories
It’s amazing how one thing can bring back bad memories. I went up two sizes, no wait, three sizes over the pandemic period and I like it… for the most part. I’ll talk about that later though. Anyway, so I needed new clothes, jeans in particular. I wanted to buy things that fit my look …
All the Time?
Welcome to another episode of Gift doesn’t understand romance with your host Gift! Honestly I’m supposed to be a creative person and yet in some things I’m very scientific. Then again, I was a science nerd and in the top set all five years. When I read my first novels I can see that a …
The Power of Clothing
So recently I’ve seen a lot of kpop idols leave their companies and leave their idol image behind. It’s been interesting. I know that there is a lot they can’t say and do when they’re an ‘idol’ however the way some people truly blossom in that freedom has been fascinating, wildly exceeding my expectations. For …
Dating Myths or Just Things I Wish I Knew
So yeah the title says it all. There are things that people don’t say and I wish they would, just be honest! Or rather I wish people wouldn’t sugar coat as much as they do. The first thing is… Kissing Listen I am sure there are people who had an awesome and amazing first kiss, …
Giftie Speaks 