You don't wake up one day and think hey I'm pretty weird. At least I didn't. I mean we live with ourselves all time, the one person you will 100% always be with is yourself and so if you're used to yourself and your behaviour you don't see it as weird. Am I right? So …
Category: Musings
A little less monolingual
If you ever read one of my very first posts I talked about how frustrated I was with being monolingual. It seemed like the only language I could speak well was English and I'm sorry but that's just boring. So I decided to up my game and learn new languages. In my third year of …
Why are black people always the first to die?
I really don't understand this. In horror movies we're the first ones to go, to the point where jokes can be made about it. But why is that the case? I mean in real life that is certainly not the case. In my life as a black woman I have never once come across a …
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TWA journey
This is a little late coming but anyhow my journey with my hair. It has been a learning experience. I fully didn't know what it was going to be like but thank goodness for YouTube and thank goodness for My Natural Sistas as without Carmen I would have struggled with my TWA. So I had …
Male Natural Hair Movement
I've been living the natural life and I've only been thinking about women and their journey with it. I've been searching them up on YouTube and Tumblr, just ogling their pics for inspiration and what not. But I recently thought... what about the men? They have great hair. I feel like there's been some kind …
Finally Finding Yourself
Okay... if you've read my previous post this may confuse you a little bit. But before I was talking about love, in terms of love and relationships and it seems like I still have a lot to learn about myself. However when it comes to my character and personality, what makes me, me... I feel …
Do I know myself?
A strange title but you shall see why in a moment. Okay so when you have a crush on someone you know, right? When you like someone and when you catch feelings for someone you know. Your brain sends off an alarm like "hey girl you're catching feelings". I thought I always knew. I mean …
What’s wrong with a nice guy?
I know girls like bad boys, a little bit of danger and all that. And sure I like a guy who can handle himself, who's strong and confident and masculine. But what's wrong with a nice guy? It's great if your man is a man but if he doesn't have manners or is just a …
Walk a mile in their shoes: work
Recently I got a job. For those who know me, this is a big deal. Not in my career or anything but a job that pays and that is what I wanted for this moment in time. I wanted to know what it's like have a job, work hard and earn money. Now I know. …
Marriage? I’m only 21
When I was younger I was such a romantic. Getting married at 21 was my DREAM... seriously. I was one of them girls who had it ALL planned out. But ask me now if it's still my dream and I will slap you down with a no. I mean, for one thing I am no …
Giftie Speaks 
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